Inspire you to reclaim self love and empowerment through pleasure-based sexual education, exploration and understanding to realize deeper personal freedom and access greater health and happiness.


4L Solutions was founded in January 2020 by LOVE Queen Layla, a Professional Dominatrix, Dual Language (Mandarin/ESL) & Pleasure-based Sex Educator, Performer and Speaker.

Championing human rights, mental health, and sexual freedom has been the cornerstone of her personal and professional journey. A survivor of trafficking from college and now a consensual sex worker and pleasure activist by choice, LOVE Queen Layla's unique perspective and lived experience drives her dedication to advocate for human rights through education, language revolution, and social justice reform. As a dual language (Mandarin/ESL) and pleasure-based sexuality educator, she actively contributes to breaking down societal norms that perpetuate violence and stigma which is also evident in her involvement in studying harmful practices and trafficking in women and girls, addressing root causes through research and advocating for policy changes to protect women's rights while recognizing the intersectionality of all social justice movements and need for global solidarity.

Raised in Beijing, China and internationally educated, she taught Mandarin and ESL for 20+ years before finding her true and natural area of expertise: sexuality, the soul, mind, body in relation to health and wellness, and realized the importance of holistic PLEASURE-based sex education and language to destigmatize STCs (sexually transmitted conditions), BDSM/Kink, and shame surrounding the essence of our existence as living, breathing, human beings. Finding her own path, she made the move to New York in 2013 beginning her own healing journey towards sexual freedom, and has made it her mission to inspire others as role model and esoteric teacher for strength and resilience.

A recognized Global Thought Leader on Human Rights and Mental Health - her workshop & coaching methodology "Embrace Your Essence Unleash Your Power  " utilizes her background in theatre, hospitality, education, dance, qigong and martial arts, and takes you on a metamorphic self exploration. She is the creator of PLAY玩 LEARN学 SPEAK说 teaching methodology which bridges the gap between second language learning, BDSM/Kink, sexual exploration and understanding, teaching people to communicate their intimate needs, desires and personal preferences in a non-native language. You will find her innovative approach to language and sexuality education refreshing, as she finds new ways to ignite your imagination while instigating you to raise your vibration.

In May 2020 in the midst of the corona virus quarantine, LOVE Queen Layla started the sexuality podcast, Punani Productions, as a free and accessible way for everyone around the world to enter the "aural" Portal to Freedom  through inspirational pick me ups from the heart (only 8 mins long) and guest empowerment stories with guests from around the world.

LOVE Queen Layla is not only a life long educator, she is a role model in the community. A resilient survivor owning her past and present to revivify her future, personally ending shame & stigma surrounding STCs, our bodies, BDSM and sexuality, normalizing conversations around sexuality, sensuality and spirituality through awareness education and training. She is an HIV+ (HIV with proper treatment is UNDETECTABLE = UNTRANSMUTABLE), Anti-stigma Sex Work & Pleasure Activist Survivor-Leader affirming the power of embracing PLEASURE and FUN. "Be You. Be Free. Be Happy!

LOVE Queen Layla's journey has not only fueled her commitment to eradicating stigma around HIV, sex work and trafficking, recognizing the importance of pleasure-based sexuality education for ending shame around STC’s (sexually transmitted conditions) while advocating for global public health and happiness but has also shaped her understanding of the cultural nuances and intersectionality surrounding these issues. She continues to organize and create public awareness as core collective member of Red Canary Song and supports the work of DecrimNY. Through her work as an anti-stigma cross cultural FREEDOM consultant , she has worked with individuals, entrepreneurs, business people, grassroots organizations, international leaders, global companies, delivering exuberant PLEASURE Activations worldwide eradicating stigma connecting communities with care and compassion.

Through radical self love and acceptance, she blossomed into a butterfly warrior and LOVE KNIGHT for sexual freedom. People often find her positivity to be contagious! Upcoming workshops: WARRIOR for Social Justice, Butoh Butterfly WARRIOR Method

LOVE Queen Layla is a published fetish model, actor and voice over artist, and commands the stage as Master of Ceremonies, Event Host, FUN Facilitator and Femme Fatale staging exuberant Kinky Kungfu Butoh inspired performances.

Experience an inimitable LOVE TRANSFUSION permeate as she illuminates the way, transforming you in the Portal to Freedom. STOP STIGMA. EXPERIENCE EMPYREAN. FREE YOURSELF.


4L Solutions is a survivor led, woman owned social enterprise providing custom dual language (English/Mandarin) PLEASURE based education, events and workshops, FUN event facilitation speaking and performance services, bespoke anti-stigma training, language and cross cultural FREEDOM consulting, creating exciting tailor made experiences based on your special needs, desires and budgets.

Mutual respect, open and honest communication are expected.

Privacy and confidentiality are assured.

Whether you're just curious, or you're ready to take action toward your dreams, 4L Solutions is here to help.

Find your solution with 4L Solutions. 


Say yes to health, FUN, and freedom :)

Thank you!