Inspire you to reclaim self love and empowerment through pleasure-based sexual education, exploration and understanding to realize deeper personal freedom and access greater health and happiness.


4L Solutions was founded in January 2020 by LOVE Queen Layla, a Professional Dominatrix, Dual Language (Mandarin/ESL) & Pleasure-based Sex Educator, Performer and Speaker. Raised in Beijing, China and internationally educated, she taught Mandarin and ESL for 18+ years before finding her true and natural area of expertise: sexuality, the soul, body, mind in relation to health and wellness, and realized the importance of holistic PLEASURE-based sex education and language to destigmatize STCs (sexually transmitted conditions), BDSM/Kink, and shame surrounding the essence of our existence as living, breathing, human beings. Discovering herself in New York in 2013, she began her own healing journey towards sexual freedom and has made it her mission to inspire others by being a personal example and esoteric teacher. Her workshop & coaching methodology "Embrace Your Essence Unleash Your Power  " utilizes her background in theatre, hospitality, education, dance, qigong and martial arts, and takes you on a metamorphic self exploration. She is the creator of PLAY LEARN SPEAK teaching methodology KinkyChinese which bridges the gap between second language learning, BDSM/Kink, sexual exploration and understanding, teaching people to communicate their intimate needs, desires and personal preferences in a non-native language. You will find her innovative approach to language and sexuality education refreshing, as she finds new ways to ignite your imagination while instigating you to raise your vibration.

In May 2020 in the midst of the corona virus quarantine, LOVE Queen Layla started the sexuality podcast, Punani Productions, as a free and accessible way for everyone around the world to enter the "aural" Portal to Freedom  through inspirational pick me ups from the heart (only 8 mins long) and guest empowerment stories with guests from around the world.

LOVE Queen Layla is not only a life long educator, she is a role model in the community. She is a resilient survivor of rape, sexual coercion and sex-trafficking that has used her past to revivify her future, personally ending shame & stigma surrounding STCs, our bodies, BDSM and sexuality. An HIV+ (HIV with proper treatment is UNDETECTABLE = UNTRANSMUTABLE), Anti-stigma Sex Work & Pleasure Activist Survivor-Leader affirming the power of embracing PLEASURE and FUN. "Be You. Be Free. Be Happy!"

Championing human rights, mental health, and sexual freedom has been the cornerstone of her personal and professional journey. As a survivor of trafficking from college and now a consensual sex worker by choice, her unique perspective drives her dedication to ending violence against women and girls through education, language revolution, and social justice reform. As a dual language (Mandarin/ESL) and pleasure-based sexuality educator, she actively contributes to breaking down societal norms that perpetuate violence against women which is also evident in my involvement in studying harmful practices and trafficking in women and girls, addressing root causes and advocating for policy changes to protect women's rights. 

LOVE Queen Layla's journey has not only fueled her commitment to eradicating stigma around HIV, sex work and trafficking, recognizing the importance of sexuality education for ending shame around STC’s (sexually transmitted conditions) while advocating for global public health and happiness but has also shaped her understanding of the cultural nuances and intersectionality surrounding these issues.

Through radical elf love and acceptance, she blossomed into a butterfly warrior and LOVE KNIGHT for sexual freedom. People often find her positivity to be contagious!

LOVE Queen Layla is a published fetish model, actor and voice over artist, and commands the stage as Master of Ceremonies, Event Host and Video Vixen staging exuberant Kinky Kungfu Butoh inspired performances.

Experience an inimitable LOVE TRANSFUSION permeate as she illuminates the way, transforming you in the Portal to Freedom. STOP STIGMA. EXPERIENCE EMPYREAN. FREE YOURSELF.

4L Solutions is a survivor led, woman owned social enterprise providing custom dual language (English/Mandarin) PLEASURE based learning and training, FUN event facilitation speaking and performances, bespoke anti-stigma transformational language & cultural FREEDOM consulting & exciting tailor made experiences based on your special needs, desires and budgets.

Mutual respect, open and honest communication are expected.

Privacy and confidentiality are assured.

Whether you're just curious, or you're ready to take action toward your dreams, 4L Solutions is here to help.

Find your solution with 4L Solutions. 


Say yes to health, FUN, and freedom :)

Thank you!